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not a woman but I want to partake in this event
We can get you some low dose estrogen and they/them pronouns.
I am so masculine, I dont take no low dose. Get me the strongest thing you got
Yea, sounds like a good plan.
Can we men please join in? I feel dysfunctional enough for the purpose as is
Man here, I hate men like this…
Don’t worry there’s women standing him and dissing men that I could do without too.
It really is the worst when shitbags like this take what could be a useful, healthy nugget of advice and paint over it with their antisocial garbage.
For all people, having a “mission” in life, finding a purpose, and having something to look forward to are all generally good things that are good for you.
Your mission that you look forward to does not need to be any specific thing that some scumbag who does not care about you prescribes.
For those of us who want families and have them, and considering that we are a social species, it also turns out that your partner, your kid(s), and your immediate environment that you can control (home) can be a pretty significant and rewarding part of your purpose each day!
It’s just a part of how conservatives think that they can claim a monopoly on family values while actively destroying families left and right. Which in turn is part of their warped view of the world where to love X means hating that which is non-X.
I have the most traditional looking family you can imagine. It works great for us, and I say fuck messages like the one in the OP that say our individual paths to fulfillment must look alike.
Many of our paths DO look alike, because there are billions of us living in the same world, and that’s why it’s worth sharing anecdotes and advice while we shout down the “thou shalt” garbage.
Actually the reason life is such utter shit and the world is spiraling into chaos is BECAUSE of the patriarchy. There is a vast majority of “normal people” that don’t care about much else besides having sex and raising kids. When you’ve chosen to spend your life supporting a family, you don’t have room to give a single flying fuck about the dangers authoritarianism, gay/trans rights, concentration camps and general cruelty governments and corporations are always comitting against the masses. Even pretending to care about this stuff can undermine your ability or freedom to raise a family in some places. This leaves the rest of us on our own to fight the obviously losing battle with all the miserable pieces of human trash that want life to be hard “because fuck you that’s why/suffering brings people closer to God”.
Civilisation sounds Hella fragile and weak.
Segregation of labor really started just recently. Go back 10000 years and you’ll find a more even split of roles. 10000 years is fairly evolutionarily negligible- we’re largely the same, aside from some immunity quirks, homeostasis tweaks, gamete peculiarity, and cultural differences.
Pluck a baby from way back and raise it today and you’ll just be raising a pretty average immunocompromised baby.
All of that to say, “women should be in the kitchen for their own good” is unsupported by an even slightly broadened perspective. I’m pretty sure Vikings aren’t coming to rape and plunder your 200 person town, bud. Hiding your wife away is just abusive.
Case in point, men and women are almost 50/50 in STEM careers around Eastern Europe due to the USSRs policies pushing more women into these careers.
People don’t realise that these norms they hold as dogma are so short-lived and subject to change that opposition only shows them unable to comprehend history past their lived experience.
It’s ashame they have to drag us down with them.
While true, there is other issues with gender inequality in Eastern Europe like relatively higher domestic violence towards women and legislature to enable it in countries like Russia.
Inequality is a complex issue and needs to be looked at holistically. I have a feeling that often there is a focus on work and “career” although later seems to be mostly measured in some women who made it to C-levels. In that sense it remains an issue of women being supposed to “function” in a narrow line, rather than the system as a whole being questioned.
More women working full time is sold as a success of emancipation, despite it meaning more work overall for women who have children as some care work is difficult to delegate. At the same time it is a massive loss, that a lot of “life goals” like owning your own home require two full time income or just aren’t reachable any more despite higher education levels.
When it comes to single parents, poverty becomes a strong problem and it helps enable abusive relationships as people are economically compelled to stay with an abusive partner. This issue moved on from the stay at home wives to women working full time too.
More income and less working hours are needed generally, and should help emancipation of women even more. In the eyes of capitalists that would be a grave “malfunction”.
I’m from eastern europe. This is bullshit.
Shit dawg all you had to say is citation needed.
Thornton, A., 2019. Gender equality in STEM is possible
Case in point, men and women are almost 50/50 in STEM careers around Eastern Europe due to the USSR
around eastern europe -> contries in eastern europe that dont support this claim dont count obviously
due to ussr -> ussr not mentioned in citation
Anyway, this is a way too broad statistic that clumps together tons of fields which are actually pretty split. Basically statistics gerrymandering.
I’ve seen some people talk about that as the harmful legacy of the USSR.
Mind you as a female engineer I agree with the communists about women.
During the golden age of the “American dream” where a man had a car, a house, and a family, didn’t the housewives end up relying on all sorts of pills and shit to not go crazy stuck in the house all day?
Pills, shopping, and racism. Historically, people have always numbed their minds to cope with the rapidly changing reality we live in, though largely with alcohol and funny plants.
I must admit a cold beer and some funny plants do make me feel a little less distressed about the world being on fire.
Plus soo many accidental male deaths. Such a darn shame.
10000y is an incredibly long time if you believe the earth is only 2000 years old, or whatever these idiots believe.
If i go into the kitchen it tends to annoy the husband as i’m intruding upon his Golden Triangle.
Unless there’s tea being made.
I think this dude might be confusing women with robots.
And maybe it’s a good thing he’s doing it…
Husband, children and a home with a robot? But what use would there be for women then?
Lol Malfunction?! wtf
It’s crazy that people like this actually exist. Like don’t you have your own problems to solve? How do you even have time to pedal this sexist garbage.
They are not humans, they are twitter users.
@grok what’s a Twitter?
It’s called Xitter now. Pronounced with a sh sound.
Literally his career. His made himself into a walking billboard and solicits donations to sustain his habit of telling creeps what they want to hear.
I did not want to believe you… but here we are https://www.noahrevoy.com/
I’ll go throw up, wash up and hug my wife and daughter
Sad that Handmaid’s Tale actually gives some people ideas
Agree… But it’s peddle
“Women need the patriarchy because, without the patriarchy, there wouldn’t be a patriarchy”
Tautology Club meets in the Tautology Club room
Tautology Club meets in the Tautology Club room
My goodness this is killing me for no good reason 😭
Why is this man terrified of women? He talks about them like they’re Tasmanian devils
You always fear what you don’t know
That man ain’t seen pussy in so long, he would throw stones at one.
This is in contrast to men, who will bring about a utopia without hunger, homelessness, war and crime. Wait.
See the men will bring a utopia of hunger, homelessness, war, and crime. And if you call it anything other than a utopia they’ll act as though you’re spitting on the very foundations of Omelas.
So you’re saying we’re living in Omelas but it’s only a utopia for like 100 people and everyone else is the poor child? Feels way to accurate
No more like they act like we do
Oh damn, thats why I always destroy one to two buildings or one piece of critical infrastructure on my way home!
Jesus, matey, maybe start using the restrooms in the feds’ buildings? Those are deserving of destruction!
The ONLY way this can work is if the men also choose to act with submission to their wife, children, and home.
It’s almost like it shouldn’t be patriarchy, but two people who love and respect one another as EQUALS in a PARTNERSHIP.
Why would that be the only way?
Because if you want a strong relationship with your partner, you set aside your selfish ways.
Because anything else will bring destruction in varying types and magnitudes, from “guess I didn’t get to live a happy life” at 80+ to “these maniacs have devasted half the globe for hundreds of years” and more
I think we’re going to destroy the globe even if we had total equality between sexes
Oh no, we can’t even exactly end life on the globe (but significantly fuck things up - yeah). And humanity going over this “man/woman is supposed to X/Y/Z” bullshit also means humanity being more mature. Question is, do we get there before some idiot does put everyone in the ground. Can’t say I am sure we will
Voluntary submission regardless of gender is fine, but the full freedom to make your choices including whether or not you submit is vital to avoiding a gender based class system which is innately destructive
That’s such a baller statement though. Guy is basically saying women will rule the world if not for the chains of the patriarchy to restrain them.
I woukd rather nit have anything ruled, thanks.
