• LaunchesKayaks@lemmy.world
    1·
    1 hour ago

    Today I’m anxious, exhausted, and struggling with my self-worth. Honestly might just go to bed early and try to sleep it off

  • LemmyThinkAboutIt@lemmy.zip
    9·
    13 hours ago

    I’m not okay. My 14 year old doggy just died in my arms on Friday. She was my little best friend, had her since she was 3 months old when we adopted her from a shelter. My old girl was tough as nails, got diabetes the beginning of 2021, gradually went blind. I took care of her and now I don’t know what to do with myself. I’m a little darker than usual on the inside now. I miss her.

    • Passerby6497@lemmy.worldEnglish
      2·
      11 hours ago

      Hey friend, I know this doesn’t exactly help, but it will get better eventually. I lost my void of 19 years a few of years ago, and that was harder than losing blood family.

      If you can stomach it, (and if not, wait for the initial hurt to pass then) try to have pictures of your girl or stuff you associate with her around you. It took me close to two years to come to terms with losing my old girl, but I can finally do this without immediately bursting into tears, and I’m so much happier now that I can. It’s only the paw imprint, but it means a lot more to me.

      Take care, and I hope you’re doing well

  • SkaraBrae@lemmy.worldEnglish
    11·
    15 hours ago

    I’m really angry. My oldest son’s school sent me an email this afternoon lecturing me on his attendance and how it affects his grades and how it makes the school look bad, etc…

    We had a few weeks off earlier this year when my grandfather and my mother-in-law died (both suddenly and unexpectedly) within two weeks of each other.

    My younger son’s school offered assistance, counselling and anything else that they could think of to offer. They were very supportive. My older son’s school has just berated us for grieving and supporting each other, our friends and our family. I’m so fucking angry. They know that bereavement was the reason for his absence. Cunts.

  • Sixty@sh.itjust.worksEnglish
    2·
    10 hours ago

    Stagnation on my personal goals is a blight on my mood, but I’m otherwise okay. 75% okay is pretty good for me.

  • Chozo@fedia.io
    27·
    21 hours ago

    Pretty bad. I found out recently that my roommate has been lying to me and spent the rent money I gave him on something else. He hid it from me long enough for it to be irreparable. I can’t get my roommate to be honest with me, and the apartment management are refusing to share any information with me (despite me still being on the lease) and won’t even accept a payment from me or even tell me what our debt is, so now I’m almost certainly going have to go to court soon to be evicted.

    I’m bipolar, so usually a major event like like this would send me either into a manic or a depressive episode. But for the first time that I can recall, I’ve been finding myself going rapidly between the two states throughout the day.

    I know I will be fine. But right now, I’m not fine.

    • silly goose meekah@lemmy.world
      1·
      9 hours ago

      What the hell? This is so unfair, especially since you are on the lease. Shouldn’t they be happy someone is trying to pay the debt? To me it almost sounds a bit like your landlord and roommate may be scheming something… No idea what or why though.

      • Chozo@fedia.io
        7·
        19 hours ago

        Thanks, and I agree. I’m not sure what grounds they have to withhold that sort of information from a lessee on. The lack of information from all angles makes it really difficult to prepare, because I have no idea what I need to be preparing for. It’s been a very difficult week. :(

        • ramenshaman@lemmy.world
          6·
          18 hours ago

          Check and see if there’s an organization in your area called Legal Aid. They’re in the SF bay area (and other places) and they do a lot of landlord/tenant stuff pro-bono.

  • Mister Neon@lemmy.world
    29·
    22 hours ago

    Trump took my job. It’s been months and I can’t get a human to look at my resume. My former colleagues are having the same experience.

    I’m doing really bad.