Something that helps me when I am overwhelmed with emotion is to isolate myself, write my feelings down, and then come to my partner and discuss them when I am feelings are more stable. I just write small notes so I can remember but explain them more fully verbally. When it comes to intimate touch my partner will make sure I am comfortable enough to engage or just let me make the first move.

I honestly recommend reading about autism and how autistic people think so that when she tries to explain things they are easier for you to understand. I wish I had resources to recommend on the spot but I can’t remembee them by heart

Edit: speaking very directly is also fantastic. Tell her exactly and directly what you are feeling and what is making you feel that way. It is as simple as “I am feeling ________ because of ______ and that is making act like _______”

Because everyone is convinced they are the one who knows

They really don’t amd honestly never did. Less people were punished at nuremburg than there were guards at Auschwitz. Many nazis got domestic government positions within years of the Paris Peace treaties and some got greater european positions of power like Chairman of the NATO Military Committee. Not to mention the many Nazis who were taken in by the US including the Butcher of Lyon who got a position with the US intelligence services where he hunted communists and taught torture. These days the AFD with direct nazi ties and explicit fascist ideology is doing great. Germany was never actually de-nazified

Conservatives are reactionary and that chart is not useful for much of anything. For example, the american conservative is technically a liberal. Well these days many of them are fasvists but still. Liberal just doesn’t mean what most people think it does

Rice

You think none of them are on the list too?

I was joking but I will probably see a camp in my lifetime regardless of what I post on lemmy

My apologies 😘

America would be a boring ass country if it was just white America. I have been saying this

Can I donate

Greater Estonia now!

I will never forget the first time I read about Jeju Island. That and the Tlatelolco massacre genuinely left me reeling.

This looks amazing. Might have to try making it myself

If only we didn’t have to permanently increase production until the end of time. Maybe then a shrinking labor, and consumption base wouldn’t a big deal. Its too bad thats not possible whatsoever right?

Yeah of course, I didn’t take it that way

Fair, it made me laugh so I posted. Not exactly a meme though

Its almost like the people in control of this country prefer the far right over the middle right

I think pickled onions count and should be here so I would say that but I also enjoy capers in the right setting.

This last election is the first time I puked from alcohol consumption

I listen to music entirely based on what I already know and like, what I randomly stumble across, and what others recommend to me. Sometimes if I am at a bar and hear a song I like, I’ll ask the bartender what it is. This sort of thing. I don’t typically go searching and all the times I’ve tried it hasn’t gone great.

Anyway I have recommendations. Here are some bands that have been recommended to me and stuck with me for atleast a year:

• Reagan Youth
• Motorama (>5 years ago)
• Dead Kennedys
• Kino
• Kneecap
• Rage against the Machine (>5 years ago)