I’m a single mother of a 12 year old boy and recently he told me he was gonna have some friends over, but he asked me if I could stay in my room while they hangout. After some arguing I did end up staying in my room for the most part outside of bringing them snacks/drinks. I was kind of hurt because I want to be that cool/friendly mom to my son’s friends and I want to get to know who my son is hanging out with. I’m definitely on the younger end for a mother of a 12 year old since I had him extremely early, so I feel like I’d be less embarrassing than other moms. Any time I’ve offered to chaperone for school events, he’s begged me not to. What should I do? Is this just a phase?

  • Olap@lemmy.world
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    2 days ago

    Your probably The Milf and he’s embarrassed. Set them some boundaries and do your own thing, you’ll be cool without even trying

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      But all the videos I’ve seen have the milf handing out the snacks in a very revealing outfit. Are you saying they’re wrong?

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        If you want to get the motor running for 12 year olds; I suspect you might be the wrong un