• FistingEnthusiast@lemmynsfw.com
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    2 days ago

    If you’re somewhere like Australia or Japan, where it’s not a normal part of the culture, then fine

    If you’re somewhere in the US where the laws around pay are shitty, and people rely on tips to survive, then you’re a cunt for not tipping

    I think tipping is shit, and that people should just be paid properly, but I’m not blind to the realities of life when I travel. So I do what is appropriate to be a decent person

          • snooggums@lemmy.world
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            2 days ago

            An individual not tipping has no impact on the status quo because the system doesn’t care about the reason people don’t tip.

            A large number of people choosing not to purchase goods and services from businesses that rely on tipping could possibly have an impact, although it would probably be easier to get the laws changed than organize that many people.

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              1 day ago

              People “organize” naturally. Theres already wide negative sentiment around tipping and especially the new places tips are asked for. We also don’t fix things until they break, so preventing it from breaking is counterproductive.

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                1 day ago

                new places tips are asked for

                We are not talking about those places. They can fuck off and I don’t tip there.

                We are talking about wait staff who get the exceptionally low base pay where the majority of their income is expected to be from tips.