• madcaesar@lemmy.world
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    8 months ago

    Nothing wrong at approaching somone you like, introducing yourself and asking them out.

    One tip… don’t use the words sexual harassment in the first sentance when meeting somone…

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    8 months ago

    I mean… maybe don’t get 2.5 inches away from her face while rubbing your chest up against her shoulder?

    Probably best not to club her on the head and drag her back to your cave either - at least, not without prior consent :-P.

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        8 months ago

        Simply asking someone for their number is not harassment.

        Repeatedly asking for someone’s number after being told no is.

        There isn’t any nuance to this situation.

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          8 months ago

          Telling someone they’re beautiful when they think you’re gross is creepy/harassment.

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            It’s okay to talk to women if you’re a male model but stay the fuck away if you aren’t. Got it.

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              8 months ago

              Or a female model. I’m certainly not here to discourage lesbians!

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                8 months ago

                “Saying ‘hey, beautiful’ to someone who thinks you’re ugly? Straight to jail. We have the hottest husbands in the world, because of jail”

                You realize this comic was meant to be satirical, right?

                Know the workplace rules

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            8 months ago

            Correct, but you won’t know if they think you’re gross until you talk to them. If you see that they think you’re gross, you stop. It’s harassment when you see that they think you’re gross but continue talking to them anyway, because at that point you know they aren’t going to respond well to you, and you’re just continuing on to spite them.

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            8 months ago

            “when they think you’re gross”

            How can I know if someone thinks I’m gross if I haven’t spoken to them yet? I should just assume I’m gross, always?

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              That’s the fun part, you can’t. Don’t assume they think you’re gross, but do remember that you don’t know what they think.

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                But if I tell them they’re beautiful and it turns out they think I’m gross I could go to prison for harassment! Am I really just supposed to roll the dice like that?

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                  8 months ago

                  Harassment isn’t a crime, so you’re probably safe from prison.

      • RealFknNito@lemmy.world
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        8 months ago

        I hope you just have a feminine sounding name and you’re not a real life woman with this opinion.