• shalafi@lemmy.world
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    10 days ago

    Not me. I require an external factor to force a sense of urgency or I don’t do shit. When I was dating and had girls over all the time, house was spotless. Now that I’m married, not so much.

    Always rocked out in primary school. Always got the same report to my parents, “Doesn’t do well in unstructured activities.” Add my chaotic good nature to that, yeah, I have to be forced to give a fuck.

    • Psythik@lemmy.world
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      10 days ago

      As someone with ADHD, I feel this.

      If there isn’t someone constantly pressuring me to get it done, I will never start it. The only way I know how to work is under constant pressure. I perform my best when scrambling at the last minute to get it done before it’s too late.