• zr0@lemmy.dbzer0.com
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    3 days ago

    Arguments like these don’t work with kids. Let them experience themselves what is best for them. And have spare socks ready in case they change their mind afterwards

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      3 days ago

      Sure, if that’s a reasonable option, but letting the kid hurt themselves isn’t always practical. Letting the kids find out ‘messing with the pot of boiling water is bad’ the hard way, as an example, is not what I would consider good parenting.

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        3 days ago

        I think it’s pretty clear they’re referring to uncomfortable stuff, not dangerous stuff. Obviously don’t let them do dangerous stuff.

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          2 days ago

          Exactly. Always protect your little ones. It is okay if they experience negative consequences, as long as it doesn’t harm them.

          Trying to drink from a glass of water and get fully soaked is okay, even if the experience is not entirely positive.

          Touching a hot oven is not okay. Here you have to protect them. The best you can do is try to explain why it is not okay to touch it.

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      2 days ago

      Even if the argument doesn’t persuade them at the time it still makes sense to point it out to them so that they are (hopefully) aware of it later.

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        2 days ago

        Fully agree. Always verbalize your thoughts and intentions. Give the kids the ability to learn.