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Over there .ml is defeded. Good riddance, those red fascists.

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  • A fetus is a potential person

    When a mother voluntarily wants the fetus terminated its because its a health risk either physically or psychologically, you can think of this is like “self defence”.

    Abortion, while it is a tragedy, is a lesser evil conpared to forced births.

    Nobody likes terminating a viable fetus, but abortion is much more preferrable than having the woman suffer.

    However, forced abortions, against the mother’s wishes, is just as bad, if not worse, than forced births.

    Forced births and forced abortions are two sides of the same coin, government interfering in personal decisions where they shouldn’t have

    If it was my mother deciding, voluntarily, at the time of pregnancy, that she didn’t want me, sure, go ahead, its probably better for the both us. A mother doesn’t have to suffer, a child never having to feel the pain of rejection by their birthparents. Win-win.

    But: THE GOVERNMENT SHOULD HAVE NO SAY IN THE DECISION, NEITHER FOR OR AGAINST THE ABORTION. IT’S THE MOTHER’S DECISION

    (P.S. After the birth happens, parents should never, ever, say “I wish you were never born”. Your window of decision was during pregnancy, you don’t get to say those words to hurt the kids after they were born. Either get an abortion, or live with the fact you chose to give birth to your child(ren), choose wisely.)

















  • Yea, that’s gonna be more difficult.

    My aunts/uncles in China just had to take care of my Grandmother until my mom became a citizen and filed a petition for my Grandmother. And now my Grandmother is here.

    My mom also filed a petition for my aunts (her sisters) and that also would include their immediate family (their husbands and their unmarried children under 21). But seeing how the politics is now in the US, I’m not sure they would want to come when they get approved (or if they would even get approved). Unlike my parents, who worked shitty jobs in China and therefore the US is a much appealing option; my aunts are teachers, so they have like government pensions and stuff, and their kids would be over 21 when they finally get off the waitlist. (They’ve been on the waitlist for like almost a decade now. A lot has changed in politics and economy.)

    I mean, they talk everyday through wechat, so its not like they are far apart anyways.