This one in the notes mentions its like fights they have had and there has been at least one comic on spouse throwing something out. Because it used non family characters I assumed it was something but if it did not make it a point of telling the reader I would have never gotten the intention. Its sorta interesting how sometimes with this stuff she will insert herself talking with a stranger or obby or such and sometimes they are all just generic npc figures they use. My guess is it depends on how close they are to the topic. At least I know that type of thing has effected how I do mmo characters (how invested I am with them).
The difference is “both are wrong” vs “both have a point” and, for me, it still misses the mark to characterize it as the latter.