I get it. There’s some real jerks around here. Whether they’re constantly argumentative, downright rude, always acting in bad faith, just plain trolls, overly opinionated on every subject, have the social skills of a Nausicaan, or whatever - the Fediverse is growing, and it’s bound to attract toxicity in one way or another.

This post is mostly a PSA for anyone who’s feeling like leaving because they’re tired of dealing with things like that. I’ve been there several times myself, I know exactly how you feel, and I’m tired of seeing good people harassed off the platform.

Just remember that blocking is a very powerful way to stay in control of your experience. Be it a set of users, me specifically, a list of keywords, a whole community, or an entire instance: if it’s causing you nothing but stress, hit that block button and see if that improves your experience here. Unlike the alien site, there is no limit to the number of entities you can block; you’re in control.

Another thing to keep in mind is different instances have different vibes, and the experience can totally differ depending on the instance’s moderation and federation policy.

In conclusion, your experience here can be what you make of it; don’t be afraid to just block the parts that stress you out. You’re not “creating an echo chamber” as everyone likes to say (often in bad faith) – you’re just taking care of yourself.

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      Lemmy.ml Lemmygrad Hexbear

      Basically the 3 far left instances that will enforce the discourse to be Marxist and anti-west.

      Most instances are defederated from the latter two but not the first because that instance is run by the main Lemmy devs (who are communists)

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        Not even communists. I have had communists as friends during my grad and undergrad. Tank triad are a worser kind. They actively hinders any discussion against China. Tianenmen? Never happened. Mao’s genocide? western propaganda. Chinese imperialism in Tibet? China reclaiming its historical boundaries. Basically China and USSR can never do anything wrong. If they did, its western propaganda.

        Also why cant they defederate from lemmy.ml? That should be technically possible as the code is open source and can be fetched easily to run an instance?

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          Anyone can defederate from .ml but they have a lot of users being the dev run site, so many don’t. Or at least that’s the reason lemmy.world has given in the past about why they have don’t federate with hexbear and lemmygrad but still do with ml

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        They’re not Marxists sadly, they’re worse.

        They’re Stalinists who want authoritarianism.

        Marx wouldn’t have condoned having a dictator/Tzar

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        Is “far left” an accurate description? They are not really what I consider “left” at all.

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          Not really. They give some lip service to communist dogma, but they really only have a big hard on for totalitarianism.

          It’s pretty absurd in 2025 to get high on late 1980s Comintern propaganda, but here they are 🤷

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          They are the actual far left. Horseshoe theory is bs.

          In contrast, Antifa is left. US democratic party are right. Canadian liberals are centrist.

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        And not in a productive way, either. Once in a while I see a couple hexbear users in a thread, so I’m guessing crossposts happen. But their comments are mostly just name-calling and shitting on liberals.

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          And never, ever criticizing the Right. These people cheer for Trump more than the fucking MAGA crowd.

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        I’m not super up to date with terminology but I wouldn’t call them far-left. I believe authoritarianism is right wing ideology.