• WhoRoger@lemmy.worldM
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    9 months ago

    I didn’t know this is like Beehaw where you need to come hat in hand with an introductory essay before you can ask a question.

    Fine, I apologise for not saying Hello, I was tired. But if you need more than that, then well I’m not your person. I was in the scifi thread, got upset, then realised I should ask the other side as well. I was trying to get a picture, couldn’t get it, we both said/agreed the debate is over, so I left because I was getting more tired and upset and didn’t want to say something bad and frankly got worried that someone would make it about me, like it’s here. Guess that’s wrong?

    I wanted to sleep on it, but when this meme showed up, I tried to recap the situation here as neutrally as possible for people, tried to avoid saying who is right (ed: at first at least. Stress on “tried”, whether you believe it or not.), didn’t call out any particular admin, told people to make up their own mind, and i’m still the bad guy. I really don’t know what you expect from someone to recap the situation. “The great diligent admins banned the toxic harasser who’s been nothing but spewing vile”, was that what I was supposed to write?

    Despite what you may think about my motivations, I don’t have any stake in this other than trying to help make Lemmy a good platform, but for quite a while it’s been pointless due to all this toxic positivity where everyone has to walk on tiptoes.

    • Quinten@lemmy.world
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      9 months ago

      I didn’t know this is like Beehaw where you need to come hat in hand with an introductory essay before you can ask a question.

      Funny…

      …told people to make up their own mind, and i’m still the bad guy.

      We replied to your post. That’s all there is to it.

      …all this toxic positivity where everyone has to walk on tiptoes.

      I believe you can express nearly anything you wish. Why mention walking on your tiptoes? We’re engaged in a discussion about something on which we hold differing opinions. That’s perfectly acceptable. However, we are permitted to present our perspective.

      But I think we have now spoken to you at length enough on this subject. For me, this is a case closed.