• zephorah@lemm.ee
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    10 days ago

    Nah, it’s just this idea that being friends is bad. You need friends. I need friends. We all do.

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      9 days ago

      Being friends is good - what sucks is when your love doesn’t love you back.

      It’s one thing being friends with someone you’ve always only seen as a friend, and very much another to be romantically rejected and proposed to “stay friends”.

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        9 days ago

        True but it’s still love, or was intended be, just not that kind of love. Did you watch Jessica Jones? Did you not, initially, think there was a love interest thing between her and Trish until the actual relationship came out in dialogue? Because that’s how all our entertainment media traditionally presents love, and that’s a problem. The femiverse vibes of that show spun a bit more reality into that piece.

        So much breaks when things are not reciprocated. It sucks.