So straight out the gate: I don’t ever really flirt (yes, even if I like the girl). And I’m not sure whether I should change strategies. So hence my question.

Note: I am a guy.

Edit: Thank you all for your input. I have come to the realisation I need to let the other party (better) know I am romantically interested in them. Either by means of flirtation or otherwise.

  • hendrik@palaver.p3x.deEnglish
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    9 days ago

    Isn’t flirting the accepted way of signaling to another person, that you’re interested in them in a certain way? I mean I talk to lots of different people of different genders in my life. And I’m mostly very nice to people and find interesting topics to talk about. But how are they supposed to find out if it’s just a nice conversation, or if I want to meet them again, or if I want to go on a date with them?

    • Fat Tony@lemm.eeOP
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      9 days ago

      But how are they supposed to find out if it’s just a nice conversation, or if I want to meet them again, or if I want to go on a date with them?

      If I’m having a friendly chat with someone and I suggest we meet again in a different setting, wouldn’t that be a clear enough sign?