• blunderworld@lemmy.ca
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    1 year ago

    I hate that I relate to this, because honestly I feel like constantly skipping around to get to the good stuff can’t be good for us.

    • bennypr0fane@discuss.tchncs.de
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      1 year ago

      I’m firmly convinced that it’s bad for us. As is watching a dozen vids in one session and switching back and forth between them. It’s possibly the most mentally damaging way of doing the whole thing. It’s like TikTok. Imagine doing that with movies.

    • TheBurlapBandit@beehaw.org
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      1 year ago

      I really don’t think spending extra time sitting through half assed foreplay is going to do the human race any favors.

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        1 year ago

        Might do an IRL sexual partner who enjoys foreplay a favour though. I dont know that reprogramming our brains to only react to hardcore scenes is doing ourselves a favour either.

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          1 year ago

          I think the brain knows the difference between porn and an actual sexual encounter. Porn isn’t sex ed nor a tutorial.