Some info: 22M, looking to move out. It started last weekend when we were discussing politics, she got mad and loudly called me an idiot. Outside, public street btw. A bit before this she also screamed at me in a minimarket for me not wanting to put my backpack in their storage boxes. Lol.

I get she was tired but she didn’t even apologize until later home when I told her about it.

Then next night I had some dreams about all the stupid shit I had to through as a kid of hers. I woke up with a disgusted taste about her and I didn’t want to talk with her anymore.

It’s been a 6 days, where I continually ignored her. She keeps coming at my door asking to “repair things”. You can’t repair 22 years of negligence. I told her that I need space and time and I will talk to her after. She keeps going against my boundaries and asks what’s wrong. Since I’ve already told her, now I’m blasting music on my headphones because it seems she can’t understand how to accord private space. She has the mentality that “I’m your mother hence I can do anything”

Now she talks nice but I know it’s just a matter of time. It’s a manipulation tactic to get me back. She doesn’t actually feel sorry.

Thanks for reading.

  • DeathByBigSad@sh.itjust.worksEnglish
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    12 days ago

    Late reply, but that’s just like my mother lol. I’m so used to this.

    Literally tries brainwashing tactics like “世上只有妈妈好” (“Only your [biological] mother is good to you”) like LMFAO, sure mom, why is there so much abusive mothers on the news?

    Like I’m immunized to propaganda now because of exposure to my parent’s indoctrination attempts, I see the same bs propaganda tactics used by governents too, its fucking cult behavior. There’s no one in the world that you can trust, only trust yourself.

    These abusive parents can fuck right off to hell (god I wish hell was real, I really need to see them burn). Good luck out there, you are strong, you are a survivor!