• naevaTheRat@lemmy.dbzer0.com
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    1 day ago

    My wife has done courses on warning signs for abusive relationships as part of some mental health first aid certification stuff.

    2 biiiiiig red flags are insisting on surveillance and not letting people have separate finances. We have a combined account sure, and also pocket money accounts and whatever else. For all I know she’s set up a trust. I mean I don’t think she has because she’d probably tell me but she has the freedom to do so.