• joulethief@discuss.tchncs.de
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    23 hours ago

    Sexuality and kink is right down my alley, I’m just too shy to talk about such topics with strangers. I’m gonna look into it anyway, thank you for your suggestions.

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      17 hours ago

      Just find a scheduled non-sexual kink event in your area (like a munch) and pregame with whatever mind altering substance improves your social anxiety enough to walk in the door. I recommend hard Arnold Palmers, since they taste good (or at least okay), contain caffeine to up your energy levels a bit, and are available at most gas stations/liquor stores.