Yeah obviously this is terrible and shouldn’t happen but if I’d have been having sex with a hot older woman when I was a teenager that would have taken care of basically all the self esteem problems I had. It might opened me up to whole new problems, I’m not a psychologist so I can’t speak to that, but seeing myself as unfuckable was for sure the biggest issue at the time. I know because my self esteem did a 180 as soon as I started getting laid (with someone age appropriate). I can certainly see where the “nice” comments come from.
Yeah obviously this is terrible and shouldn’t happen but if I’d have been having sex with a hot older woman when I was a teenager that would have taken care of basically all the self esteem problems I had. It might opened me up to whole new problems, I’m not a psychologist so I can’t speak to that, but seeing myself as unfuckable was for sure the biggest issue at the time. I know because my self esteem did a 180 as soon as I started getting laid (with someone age appropriate). I can certainly see where the “nice” comments come from.