I think what she is trying to express is she sees someone and her gut says he is a dick or nice and then she sorta sees them being mean/nice and being a generally nice person she is trying to figure out if they are being mean/nice or if her initial reaction is influencing her and the time it takes to be like. Ok. thats it. this guy is sorta a dick or yeah this guy is pretty cool.
I get the message, I’ve had to re read it a few times for it to not come off that she’s trying to ask why that bothers her.
I think what she is trying to express is she sees someone and her gut says he is a dick or nice and then she sorta sees them being mean/nice and being a generally nice person she is trying to figure out if they are being mean/nice or if her initial reaction is influencing her and the time it takes to be like. Ok. thats it. this guy is sorta a dick or yeah this guy is pretty cool.